It's a quiet January, welcome but also unwelcome at this time of my life. If I, alas, have nothing to do, I can thankfully go out for a walk most days, and I carry along my camera with the good zoom. The winter birds have been out singing, but they are smart little creatures, fleeing the branches when I stop for a look. I think I identified some of as kinglets. New to me. Also mockingbirds, house finches, blue jays, and mourning doves that seem to be the most relaxed and easier to get pictures of. The sky was really blue!
Saturday, January 7, 2023
Tuesday, December 6, 2022
Full Moon Tonight
Thursday, December 1, 2022
The Hard Season
Here we are at the Thursday one week after Thanksgiving. I heard someone on the radio say that for most people, Thanksgiving is their favorite holiday. Expectations are lower, no gifts need be exchanged, there's good familiar food, and it doesn’t linger. I know that my family enjoys getting together then.
Last Christmas was emotionally hard for me as it was the first that I was really alone, without someone who was mine. No assigned person. No mommy or husband, and no children since my sons are assigned to other women. I appreciated my man Raymond on Christmas, that he was mine, and in the later years of grown children, we found fun things the two of us could do. But we must adapt and roll along with life’s changing seasons.
I used to love my Christmas tree more than anything. Since being here I have put up only one, but it was real, a nice size with that wonderful evergreen fragrance. In retrospect, I was wrong on those other years to under-do the season. So after Christmas 2021, I ordered a nice little fake tree. I knew if I had one, I would use it. I hoped it would cheer me up. Today I got the box down from the attic and have successfully assembled the four and a half foot tree. The fairy lights work and right now, it is looking pretty in its unadorned state. Now where to put it in my little house?
Thursday, November 24, 2022
Friday, November 18, 2022
scene from shopping/dining/business spot
I went to lunch today with a friend I met in an art class probably in 2015 when we were both new in Wilmington. Now we are both settled in, and it was great to get together and catch up. The cute breakfast/lunch place opened only a couple of months ago. In the nine years I have been here, I have seen a lot of cute restaurants come and go.
Wednesday, November 16, 2022
Granddog
When Caroline moved in, this doggie came with her. She (dog) terrorized my cats on a few occasions, but we have settled into a survival routine, and we all know the drill now. Otherwise said dog is not a problem, in fact she is helpful by keeping the floors clean.
Tuesday, November 15, 2022
Rainy Day Downtown
I had to go to a government building downtown to get my ID badge for guardian ad litem duties, and since I had more time on the parking meter, I dawdled and took pix of where I was.
The top one is of Thalian Hall/City Hall on Third Street and the courthouse. Cool places.
The second is the intersection that holds the library and the Cape Fear Apartments, once the Cape Fear Hotel. It is where my mother and daddy spent their wedding night in October 1942.The next day, Daddy shipped out for the Army.









